Yeah. I came back here to say, "Wait, wait, that wasn't very uplifting and helpful, it might not be that bad."

But... shit.

I concur, though. Knowing is better than not knowing. Knowing Mom had cancer and knowing what her treatment options were and... having a plan was so much better than just going OMGCANCEROMG.

I just felt like a bit of a jerk for reading that over and going "This is what they're saying. ...Fuck." Heh.