Oh dear. Although I know nothing of your fanfic, I do sympathise. I think it's a dreadful nerve to tell people what they "should" write in matters of creative writing (technical authoring is another matter altogether), and as you say, if someone can't spell, can't punctuate, and can't use capital letters (or possibly is so bone idle they can't be arsed to do any of those things), I don't see why you should be expected to pay them any attention at all. Sporking? I'd flamethrower them (but then, Once Upon A Time In Mexico is the fandom I spend too much time in).

And as for moving - get more than one quote, and see if you can find anyone who is prepared to recommend (or not) any of the companies you think you might want to use! I speak - as you know - from bitter experience!